Thursday, March 26, 2009

Sexual Intimacy

Before we went to spring break we talked about sexual intimacy. The thing that really was interesting to me was the top five sexual issues for married couples. I see this every time I am around my aunt and uncle. You can tell very much so that my aunt wants affection from my uncle but is very dissatisfied with the love and affection that she does get. She is always fishing for a kiss or a hug or even a few nice words, and we all see it everyday and it just seems to get worse over time. In my family things are not secret unless you want them to be so as sad as it is I know some of my families intimacy problems. I guess that's what you call a close family. Anyway, I know that my aunt stuggles to find any satisfying feelings in her sex life and has an even harder time getting my uncle to talk about their sex life and having him do anything different. We all see everyday that my uncle is very reluctant to be affectionate at all with my aunt and it crushes us more and more everyday to see that she struggles to feel loved and get any of the help she needs at home. I can only hope to learn from my aunt and hope that it never happens to me.

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