Chart/ Single person

The chart that showed us how many people you have been with if all of your sexual partners have been with the same amount of people as you was pretty scary. I felt that it was in stark contrast from the things in the book. To me the book seemed to point to the direction that the more sex you had the better because it gave you more "varied sexual experiences" and it seemed like the book was representing that in a good light. I also noticed on of my friends in the lecture of people who don't like being single. She feels depressed and like no one will love her and is constantly lowering hwer standards so that she can find someone who will like her. I think the lecture helped me figure out how to talk to her and address her problems so that I could let her know that she was a good person and deserved much better. That perhaps she needs to wait around for the right person instead of actively trying to find him and find herself instead. i think once she is happy with herself she will notice the people who all ready care for her and will be able to find much more because she will believe that she actually deserves it and will be able to see it.